YOUR church can't allow anything...Your church doesn't even exist in scripture...
We become a member of the Body when we get saved...The 'church' IS the saved...It is NOT an organization empowered to accept or reject anything...
The church of Jesus Christ is spiritual...It's not physical...There are no buildings...
Let me ask you something...Is it your physical body that is a member of your church, or is it your soul???
It’s always nice to hear the other opinion articulated.