ANother blame the victim cheer on the cheating scumbag post. I pray you are not married and especially pray you don’t have children since marriage vows mean or would mean nothing to you.
First prayers this all works out but in my opinion God wouldn’t hate you for a divorce. You deserve better than Rick.
On a practical note call a lawyer and also make sure you know about the finances and such. The woman is a gold digging tramp (all women are in these situations) and if you get a hold of the money she’ll go spread them elsewhere.