[randog]

This book has helped me immensely with my marriage:

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=care+and+feeding+of+marriage&x=0&y=0

Good luck and here’s praying that God gives you the answers you seek. Be prepared to get revelations you weren’t expecting.

[bboop]

Also her Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, which, of course, talks about both partners.