My own conviction about such is that we must, MUST be sensitive and obedient to HOLY SPIRIT FOREMOST—without being flakey! LOL. Yet when Holy Spirit has been clear and we clearly know it has been THE HOLY SPIRIT—then we must be responsive.
God alone knows the snares and entrapments that close entanglements with those increasingly in satan’s grasp might result in for us, almost unawares because of the . . . essentially . . . more or less carnal relationship with those who refuse to love and submit to God.
Jude 1:20-23 (NIV)
But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in God’s love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life.
Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them; to others show mercy, mixed with fear—hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh.