You must not continue to attack people on a personal level without seeing the bigger picture....frankly it makes you look like a heartless creep. People do need hand holding...even the Priests.
My point is that there is a sense that "the authority" is too far away and out of touch...like it or not, it's true.
A smaller church gives a person a sense of inclusiveness in how their lives will turn out. It's a simple part of human nature that will not be ignored.
Some are asking for answers and as a person with knowledge of how things really work in the Church, I'm trying to give some suggestions.
I don't expect you to agree with my observations nor will you ever be able to wipe them away with excuses.
The left is in an all out assault on ALL churches...if you don't want or need any help, wonderful. I'm glad you all have everything looking rosie.