I can’t tell you how many years it took me to make my decision because I don’t really know when it began because it was so subtle, I think it began long before I realized. It took me an additional 5 years of study and prayer after the firm decision before I actually took the big leap.
There were people who were pressuring me both ways and I ignored them.
I think your way was wise...when anyone puts undue pressure on me, to agree with them, as opposed to agreeing with the other side, I also ignore them as well...why would I entrust such an important decision to someone else?....that other person has neither the authority nor credentials of any sort, to engage in applying such pressure....as I dismiss thoughtless and childish postings, as being useless, so I also dismiss those who seek to apply undue pressure...I will go about this in my own way and in my own time, guided by prayer and study...nothing more I can do..