She is not your judge. Only you know your intentions.
Ironically, whenever we judge someone else we build the scales whereby we will be judged ourselves.
Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. - Matthew 7:1-2
God's justice is perfect.
Thank you so much for sharing your insights, dear OLD REGGIE!