You really do remind me of someone....
Sorry...but that post was nearly impossible to understand.
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Then, let me try again.
You asked;
“Is it good manners to basically tell all Christians...that they won’t get to the many mansions without J. Smith’s consent?”
Is it good manners for you to tell me that I can only get to heaven if I do it your way?
It is the same after all.