You are being intellectually dishonest if you claim that reference to the wedding of Cana, as an example of Our lady's intercession, equates with Jesus HAVING to do what Mary says. Please don't create false testimony against others to suite your convenience. We are all called to be servants of our God, and can always ask him to help us. We can all ask each other to pray for us. Mary is God's servant. She has served him well. She is in heaven with our God and continues to serve him, NOT boss him around. That is a disgusting comment, but I forgive you.
I'm not the one(s) that claims it