Mary, you may want to look again. Post 10106 was directed at Old Reggie. And I was asking him why he was coming down on the side of the Calvinists.
I know that you are not Calvinist; it is part of the reason why I think that we dialogue reasonably well. Not the only reason; there are a small handful of Calvinistas that I can hold a reasonable conversation with - a very small one.
IIRC, he was responding to my post. If not, sorry.