It is not my aim to understand Calvinism. What would you say to a mother who’s child is dying? What comfort would Calvin offer?
“Well, if your daughter is one of the elect, and you are too, I guess you’ll meet in heaven. If not, you’ll meet in hell.”
It is my aim to understand how ANYONE could be a Calvinist.
Calvin’s God is dead. A puppet. A construct of sick old men’s imaginations.
You said: It is my aim to understand how ANYONE could be a Calvinist.
The secret is to believe that YOU are one of the elect and all others are lost.
It is an exercise in establishing yourself as a sort of demi-God...all knowing, preserved from sin, the final arbiter of truth....God.
It is an illness.
I would offer them the solace of David who knew he would see his son again.