Ordination is not a right, it is not something anyone can demand, and the lack of ordination does not make anyone a "second-class citizen".
But if you're a Catholic, it should be sufficient for you that the Church's inability to ordain women was infallibly taught by Pope John Paul II. That means it will never change. Not in your lifetime, not in your children's lifetime, not 10,000 years from now.
Dig in those heels. We shall see.