I have never minded if others wanted to pray for me as long as they are praying for my well-being and redemption.
Even if the petitions were phrased in a way that was uncomfortably disparaging --- "May Mrs. Don-o and all the blind obstinate Catholics find their salvation through Jesus in the Cornerstone Church of San Antonio" --- I would still assume it was motivated by a friendly concern for my soul.
Just don't hit me with those Imprecatory Psalms. "May they perish in disgrace" is something I'd find hard to take amiably.
My gal Ann (Coulter) would have a few things to say about it. Of course she’s been labelled as an anti-semite so many times (always erroneously) that she’d be spat on by the media — not that they haven’t done so in the past.
Theologically, we need to pray for every soul that hasn’t come to Christ, regardless their background. However, single out the Jews and put Muslims in a big category of ‘pagan’, IMO, is a remnant of the past. If we want to come to the Lord with more specific petition, I don’t see why we have to restrict the prayer to the formulation of the past.