Along the way in my 61 years, I learned that some folks’ opinions were worth a lot more than others’ were.
And, that I could profit from prayerfully pondering such folks’ opinions.
I guess they teach different things in the RC edifice schools.
I don’t know that you have 61 years of experience, what the experiences that you do have consist of, and of what use they are put. You are an online entity.
I do gather that they have not been used to understand the Church. I suppose that that is one difference in Catholic experiences, regardless of age.