How many dioceses across the country have you observed Catholic Priests in?
My experience with Catholic Priests has mainly occurred in Illinois and Florida.
Prior to becoming a Catholic, I was a consultant to one of the larger Florida diocese and frequently met with all of the priests of that diocese. That's probably where I first noticed that Catholic priests were very "different" than Protestant ministers. My experience as a Catholic has confirmed what I thought then.
My view of Priests isn't helped by the fact that the Bishop of my diocese is quite obviously a corrupt, practicing homosexual. He was exposed by the local newspaper several years ago. The Pastor of my parish is also quite light in the loafers.
Maybe there's a Diocese somewhere full of "regular" guys, but I haven't seen it.