So, in support of this conjecture: When I go after an argument, I am tend to be looking for errors in fact (It is said we teach "A", while my understanding is that we do not) or logic (Since some pray to saints, therefore they must think the NEED to pray to saints), among which are internal contradictions or absurdities (no examples come to mind). You on the other hand will consider the mission mostly accomplished merely by clearly articulating the "correct" doctrine.
We're trying to do two different things. So when you mount an assault on our notions of the intercessions of the Saints, any related criticism is relevant. So that if you raise the question of "Why not go straight to Jesus?" and I answer that Protestants also ask for the prayers of others, you think it germane to bring up, say, the "prayers to the dead" criticism, because the goal is to stomp into the dirt the whole idea of intercession of the saints. While for me, the manner of stomping, the truth, reasonableness, and efficacy of it is what needs examining, and since we're not done looking at the question of intercession generally, the bringing up of the 'dead' question is a just changing the subject and looks evasive.
So when your side is done mentioning this or that point and hauling out this or that piece of Scripture or Calvin, you all Amen and generally high-five each other. And we're thinking and sometimes saying, "Wow, how unreasonable and perseverative they are!" We are seeking to discuss, while you are seeking to proclaim and denounce. I am not HERE saying which is better. I'm just pointing out that a lot of the problem is that we are doing two very different things with different goals.
To you all, the raising of a contradictory fact or the pointing out of a logical anomaly is an interference with your divine mission of denunciation and proclamation, so it must be driven out somehow -- anyhow. To us the repetition and piling up of citations just looks like throwing one rock after another and not stopping to see if they were well-aimed.
This can lead to a certain level of animosity. And, indeed, if my take is right, then I see no point in "engaging" with you all, except possibly socially and, maybe, in prayer sometimes.
To be perfectly honest, the gospel message is rather simple. All I CAN do is read and repeat what the text says.
If the text says, "You did not chose me but I have choosen you.", then personally I think that is rather clear. I can understand Christians saying, "Hmmmm...that is rather interesting and I'll have to study it." or "I believe it is stating ----this---- for ----these---- reasons." There shouldn't be a "Yes, but...".
That being put aside, I will say that I'm not here to win battles, pick fights, prove a point or anything else but to learn and grow. I will add there are some things I find simply astounding that Christians would believe. Never in all my born-again days would I have thought Christians believed some of these things, and I have socialized with all sorts of Christians. In these cases I can't keep my big mouth shut-or my big keyboard.
The "bringing up of the dead question" is central to the error of praying to anyone other than the Triune God.
The RCC believes in purgatory and that the prayers of the living can effect the eventual destination of the dead.
Bible-believing Christians know that at the moment of our death, we will either reside blameless in heaven with God or condemned by our sins in hell.
Therefore, for those already dead, our praying to other dead people is pointless.
And for the living, praying to dead people takes our eyes off the only mediator between God and men, Christ Jesus, who is "is before all things," and by whom "all things consist."
"Then saith Jesus unto him, Get thee hence, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve." -- Matthew 4:10
I'm just pointing out that a lot of the problem is that we are doing two very different things with different goals.
The "goal" should always be to understand God's word and will. If we don't find a belief in the Scriptures, if we find a particular belief expressly denounced in the Scriptures, what is the prudent man to do? Keep searching for reasons to believe what Scripture denies? Where's the logic in that?
I see no point in "engaging" with you all
It's human nature to withdraw when our defense is weak. There is an alternative.
"As for God, his way is perfect: the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all those that trust in him." -- Psalm 18:30