I thought, in TULIP, everyone truly wanted to be in hell, unless God made them not want to?
Hmmmm...rather interesting. The TULIP doesn't say this. I don't know if I'm correct that everyone truly wants to be in hell. We are children of wrath but God saves us from this condition by His grace and mercy. What I do know is that unless God changes our hearts we will never wish to be around God. We may not wish to be in hell, but we certainly don't wish to be in heaven.