Okay, let’s discount the numbers.
Is God dispassionate about those that he sends to hell?
Does God hate sin?
Obviously not.
Matthew 23 :37 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!
The wicked perish because they hate God and do evil continuously. God has not willed them to do so, no more than you would will your children to grow up and become criminals.
All must repent for God is holy,and nothing unholy can be in His Presence
.Luke 13:2
And Jesus answering said unto them, Suppose ye that these Galilaeans were sinners above all the Galilaeans, because they suffered such things?
13:3 I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
13:4 Or those eighteen , upon whom the tower in Siloam fell, and slew them, think ye that they were sinners above all men that dwelt in Jerusalem?
13:5 I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.