Why would you trust a baby-killer with your babies?
If your answer requires that God kills babies in order to fit your theology, perhaps your theology has something foundationally wrong.
Does any one really believe that babies are beyond the control of God? Are they somehow exempt until the age of accountability from being part of God’s plan? When they die does God say “oops, lost another one, gee I wish I could have saved them?” Now that’s defective theology with a God impotent and uncaring.
I would rather entrust my offspring to a God who is holy and righteous and has planned everything accordingly. Then if something happens to my child or grandchild, whether I like it or not, I can trust it was for their good for God was overseeing it.