You don't understand the situation that we are rescued from. If you did you would not make such a statement. We love because God first loved us. We understand our just punishment and the salvation that God has wrought in our lives. There is no "forced" love.
What is actually being denied is that God's will will be done. If it was that God willed that Joe would be saved, do you think that Joe would be saved? You'd have to say no because that would violate Joe's "free will". In essence you are simply denying the Lord's prayer's confession, "Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven." According to your soteriology, every atheist who dies in their sin is evidence this confession is not true; God will is NOT done on earth. Calvinists believe God will IS done on earth as it is in heaven, just as God intends. If Joe goes to his grave as an atheist, it is according to God's will.
But, hey, you're "free" to believe what you want.
We love because God first loved us.
I understand the theology; but is this why you love God? To elaborate, you do not necessarily love everyone who loves you, so "because He loves you" would not necessarily explain why you love Him.
We understand our just punishment and the salvation that God has wrought in our lives.
Is this why you love God? Would you not love God if He decided you were not to be saved?
There is no "forced" love.
Then you can make choices not to love God? If so - or even if not:
Why do you love God?