I browsed an excellent book on this subject. Titled
“ No More Chritian Nice Guy” by Coughlin (forget the first name)
These are great books on the problem with attracting men to the church:
The Feminization of Christianity by Leon J. Podles
Why Men Hate Going to Church by David Murrow
and, Father Patrick Arnold’s book, Wildmen, Warriors and Kings: Masculine Spirituality.
Podles and Arnold are Jesuits and Murrow is non-denominational evangelical.