Our minds are not completely out of control simply because of God. If you think otherwise then that is pride. Our natural spiritual tendency is towards evil with one of the greatest of evil being that of sodomy. The only reason we resist is because of God.
As I said, our conscience is from God.
The only way people can get help with such a condition is if they ask God to remove it from them.
While I get drunk and watch porno, I ask God to remove my sinful lust? And if He doesn't, then am I'm a victim of God?
Christians need to stop manufacturing excuses for sin..
Yes. And excuses for not taking responsibility for our choices.
I think you might agree that how and in what spirit and manner we ask matters. I don't think you believe that asking insincerely and still wishing to sin, knowing the consequences.. "asking" is not really asking.
God not only gives us the beginnings of conscience, He forms it in us and he gives us the strength to direct our actions toward our wish to be one with Him - as we grow in spirit. All of these things are from God. I hope you agree thus far.
Perhaps then it is a matter of viewpoint or semantics. You might say, if we ask sincerely God will change our actions. I see it as simultaneous, inseparable. God does not ask of us what we cannot and if we truly wish to be near Him, we will choose to do.
All of this is within our capacities, individual capacities. These are hard to know but we must strive continually to be close to God even knowing there is no perfection this side of the veil.