I find that a bit incredulous.
For me, the most insidious are the distractions of life. For instance, if my feelings get hurt, it takes extraordinary self-control to turn to God and asking for His healing and direction
My experience has taught me that truly humble people never get offended.
I disagree. If someone you loved closed the car door on your hand, you have just been "insulted" as the physicians call it. It is entirely a physical thing in that case.
A humble person would not snap at the person who did it or cry out in self pity - but most likely (IMHO) he would pull the hand to his torso, wrap it in something to stop the bleeding - maybe go see a doctor, etc. He might even wince or whimper.
As to personal insults, name calling and the like - indeed, a loving person barely notices - if at all.
Our failures to do so are our own, when we try to do anything apart from Him (Romans 8.) We have little or no power, but He does: