You never lust after a spouse? Your idea of marriage is a bit different than mine.
BTW, Who do you say Jesus is. In as much as you want to use him as an authority I figured you might have something to say about him.
Do you mean Jesus Christ the only begotten Son of God?
Or do you have another in mind?
And you don't know about lust, do you? Strongs says that it is coveting, which implies an improper wanting and longing for what isn't yours.
Again, I'm telling you that there is a difference between lust and love, even if you don't want to believe it.