I may go to Elder Young's viewing or memorial service and linger quietly . I didn't know him or his family, but I lived In Centerville for many years and I know hundreds of people in the Bountiful area. I probably know his stake president or bishop.
The older I get, the more I treasure these memorial services. Yes, they are sad, heartbreaking, but they are also exquisitely hopeful. Nothing so quiets the soul or more steadies the spirit.