As to love, I would say that Christ's love is shining through my actions much more clearly than someone who chooses not to love.
Regards
How about more Godly wisdom than the other guy. Hope you know I wasn't talking about a PhD in Physics - if you did not then let's make it clear that I am talking about the wisdom of God not the wisdom of man.
I claim that your view is that through your own natural reason/free-will you chose God but the other guy did not. You used the teaching of your Church wisely in your view, the other guy did not.
Any chance we can agree on that?