Bingo. I know good trads who you can't even talk to on this issue. You bring up St. Emerentiana, the holy Martyr catechumen who was never baptized--"Oh, but she *must have been baptized* before death!! Someone must have done it before she died!"
*Sigh*. Very sad.
Jan 23rd. I know the date off the top of my head because I have so freq. referenced her Feast in trying to dissuade trads from their Feenyism.