Oh dear, I was really hoping this was some sort of joke. The ELCA won't do anything about it. They never do.
This sort of baloney doesn't represent the beliefs of a lot of ELCA members. But it doesn't matter, it taints us all when the church as a whole won't do anything to stop these things.
Still hunting for a Lutheran church that we can call home. We visited the local LCMS congregation and were not welcomed at all, unfortunately. We have one more to visit.
Sometimes the small parishes get really insular. With all the stuff going on in the ELCA, I know of a few pastor who will regard anyone from the "other side" with suspicion. Keep looking though! I will have you guys in my prayers.