Amen! Listening to the Lord is the best thing for every individual to do. I agree with you completely, the Holy Spirit should be allowed to work in each congregation as HE wills... but if a few people do leave because of a direction a church goes (whether it be pro-PDL or anti-PDL), so be it. The pastor is still responsible to the Lord, and the Lord always adds more
A friend of mine tells me the story of a pastor who said that the Lord told him to move the location of the church more towards the inner city, which caused about 2/3 of the church to leave. Everyone questioned him and said he was not really hearing God. A couple years down the road, the Lord added many hundreds more beyond anywhere the church was in the past. His ways are not always our ways. I know this isn't PDL-related really, but again it's an issue of listening to the Lord and not to man.
Follow Christ!...and if Warren's works bring a person to the point where they are determined to follow Christ, then they've been helpful.