what diocese is that where they don't kneel at all during consecration? I'm in the Metuchen diocese, and haven't seen anything like that at all. Instead I've been very impressed with how reverently the N.O. is celebrated here. Even the student Masses at Rutgers are free of liturgical abuses, which is alot more than I can say for student Masses at my undergrad, Notre Dame.
I went to mass in a church in the trenton diocese where the priest stated the bishop allows standing during the concecration. Most of the people who belong to that parish stand.