I don't mistake you for an apologist for the ICEL at all. You are somebody who attends the Novus Ordo--and that tells me all I need to know. Whether you kneel or not for Communion, or whether you take Communion on the tongue, is beside the point.
And you are wrong to imagine that "pro multis" has been "badly translated." If the phrase has not been honestly translated, then there has been a conscious decision to ignore what Jesus actually said. That's leaving his words out. You can rationalize this any way you like--but it's still a deliberate deception--of the sort that permeates the New Mass.
How can we make this into a "shaming" phrase?--or is it better that you have a scarlet N.O. emblazoned on your chest?