Ahhh... You finally touched on what I was driving at.
I set up an apparent contradiction:
God is absolutely sovereign.
Sin is contrary to God's will.
As I see it, there are only two possible responses to this:
1. Both of these statements cannot be true.
2. Despite the apparent contradiction, both statements are true; how this can be is a mystery.
Now, Calvinists have asserted a similar apparent contradiction in the free will position:
God is absolutely sovereign.
Man has a truly free will.
Again, there are a number of ways to reconcile them.
1. Both cannot be true (free will is rejected).
2. Both are true; how this can be is a mystery (SoothingDave's position).
3. God's sovereignty allows for man's free will (my position).
I personally find the latter pair of propositions to be less problematic. In either case, though, you ultimately reach a point where you have to say that the ultimate resolution of the contradiction is a mystery beyond our understanding. And that you accept the truth of both of the propositions as axiomatic, rather than attempting to prove them.
Good summation. I would say, however, that #3 and #2 don't necessarily or always conflict. Or for that matter, I can even see where #1 (free will being curtailed or highly "influenced") doesn't conflict. Both number 3 and number 1 can be true at times in service to the position of #2.
Of course that's what you get for embracing a duality as a mystery. :-)
SD
Premise A: God is absolutely sovereign.
Premise B: Man has a truly free will.
Theology 1. Premise A is true. Premise B is false (Reform theology).
Theology 2. Premise A & B are true; how this can be is a mystery (SoothingDave's position).
Theology 3. God's sovereignty allows for man's free will (my position).
Theology 4. Premise A is false. Premise B is true. (Generally held by deists or others not part of this discussion)
If youll notice Theology 1 & 4 are absolutes. The issues surfaces between Theology 2 & 3. How do they differ from the premises stated?
Harley made a very good post affirming this same sentiment (at least in the main). Good stuff, malakhi.