CD what special reason would God have to bestow UNmerited favor upon us? I believe His reason is, as the Bible states, His own good Will. What do you think?
Would you feel differently then if you weren't just talking about "those people" and it was affecting you personally?
This does affect me personally. I have many, many family members who have been told and shown the Gospel. They have rejected it over and over. So odds are, though not 100%, that a whole slew of them will be in Hell when they die. They aren't "those people" to me.
And yet knowing that, I can still praise God for what mercy He has shown in my family. God doesn't owe me anything and He doesn't owe my family anything. I take that back, He owes us Hell. The fact that He doesn't let us all have what He owes us makes Him wonderful beyond comparison.
As far as my own Election all I can do is trust what He has revealed in the Bible. I have put my faith and trust in Jesus Christ. I love Him and have a compelling desire to serve Him. He has promised that those who believe on His Son will not perish. That is the definition of who one of the Elect are: one who believes on the Son of God.