I thought you said that being a sinner is what destined you to He11. Are you differentiating "rejecting Jesus" from "being a sinner"?
Is it "rejecting Jesus" or failing to accept Him that is the crux?
To summarize - please reconcile "With that being the case, no action on my part has damned me to Hell, because I was damned to Hell from the womb"
with "If they are not given the choice, then they cannot be condemned for rejecting Jesus."