But of course when those things are used, the typical mormon response is that its all taken out of context....
Now that you mention it I remember that's exactly what happened on some of the threads. I can't believe (or I have a difficult time believing) they knowingly pull those stunts, so I have to believe they do it without realizing what they're doing.
I guess when someone pokes some major holes in your belief system it's a normal reaction... so what works (besides God) to get their attention? Is there anything we can do different?