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New fraternity geared toward gay, bisexual men
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Posted on 09/18/2003 10:55:21 AM PDT by chance33_98

New fraternity geared toward gay, bisexual men


President of Penn's Delta Lambda Phi colony, junior Carlos Sanchez, left, discusses the future of DLP, a gay and bisexual fraternity, with Vice President Chris Grabski, right. The colony is currently seeking recognition from the Bicultural InterGreek and InterFraternity councils.

In a few days, a new fraternity will be rushing campus -- Delta Lambda Phi will hold its fall rush from Sept. 27 to Oct. 11. The difference between this fraternity, which was first founded in 1986 in Washington, D.C., and others on campus is that it is geared towards gay, bisexual and progressive men. The Penn chapter of DLP was founded in July.

Currently, DLP is not associated with any of the Greek organizations on campus.

However, "Delta Lambda Phi may apply for dual membership to the Bicultural [Inter]Greek Council and the InterFraternity Council," Fraternity and Sorority Affairs Director Scott Reikofski said.

The BIG-C is the umbrella group for minority fraternities and sororities on campus.

Reikofski went on to say that DLP is currently under the jurisdiction of OFSA.

According to Wharton junior and DLP President Carlos Sanchez, becoming a member of a recognized organization is one of his biggest priorities.

"It gives us legitimacy in a way," Sanchez said. "We're a real fraternity, and without that affiliation, we're kind of like just another group."

The chapter is open to Penn students, students from other area universities and people of college age, which Sanchez defined as "18 to 25 years old."

The Penn chapter currently has five members from Penn, one from Neumann College in Ashton, Pa. and one non-college student.

The fraternity holds many of its meetings at Civic House and will hold some in Penn's Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Center.

According to Sanchez, holding meetings in Civic House reminds people of the community service aspect of the fraternity.

One of DLP's goals is "to show that gay people are here, and the best way to do that is through community service," Sanchez said. "Through community service, we establish a presence, and people see gay people in a very positive light."

DLP plans to partner with other community service groups in the Philadelphia area, such as the Philadelphia Community Health Alternative and The Attic Youth Center, to provide support and services for gay youth in the area.

The PCHA is a center that gives free testing for sexually transmitted diseases to gays and bisexuals.

Together, DLP and The Attic -- a Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender center -- will aim to help queer youth from ages 13-24 in their "coming out" process and with housing and school services.

"It provides a whole bunch of services so queer youth don't feel as discriminated against," said Chris Grabski, a Neumann College sophomore and vice president of DLP.

He continued to say that they do this "because a lot of gay youth aren't as privileged as we are."

According to the guidelines set by their national office, in order for the colony to become a chapter, it has to rush a beta and gamma class, draw up a list of by-laws and raise enough money to support itself.

The colony already plans on rushing its beta, or second, class next week and will rush its gamma, or third, class during the spring.

The colony's list of by-laws needs to include a no-hazing policy and a hands-off policy. The hands-off policy, required by the DLP national office, does not allow dating or sexual relations between brothers and pledges or between pledge classes.

According to Sanchez, this is done to emphasize that DLP is not some sort of "sex club."

Sanchez mentioned that the colony is in the process of fundraising, but did not specify from where the colony plans to draw funds.

"One of the main reasons why we have to fundraise is because we are the first class," Grabski said. "For everything to follow through, we have to have money and support from as many people as possible."

Sanchez is confident that Penn students will want to join the fraternity.

The fraternity has already received requests to join from about eight to 10 people in the freshman class.

"I don't think interest is going to be a big [problem] in getting people," he said.


TOPICS: News/Current Events; US: Pennsylvania
KEYWORDS: fraternity; homosexuals; upenn
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To: chance33_98

Lamar is joining the DLP!

21 posted on 09/18/2003 11:07:35 AM PDT by stainlessbanner
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To: steve in DC
They could have panty raids without ever leaving the frat house!


Lamar: "Do Tell!"

22 posted on 09/18/2003 11:07:56 AM PDT by steveo (I'm so hungry I could eat at Arby's)
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To: SwinneySwitch
What the heck is a progressive man?

A closet homo, I guess. Who else would want to live with these guys?

23 posted on 09/18/2003 11:08:44 AM PDT by Kenton
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To: mlbford2
In all seriousness. We had a bunch of gay brothers in our fraternity. Some were more out of the closet than others but in retrosepct they were definitely a little different. And they were all WAY too good dancers.
24 posted on 09/18/2003 11:08:44 AM PDT by finnman69 (!)
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To: thoughtomator
It's a gay dating service with keggers.
25 posted on 09/18/2003 11:11:04 AM PDT by mountaineer
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To: finnman69
I had a few suspicions of some of my frat brothers. To be honest, nobody even cared. We were all just more concerned about drinking beer and scoring babes.
26 posted on 09/18/2003 11:11:10 AM PDT by mlbford2
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To: finnman69
So their rush-ees will have to wear khaki, and get the numbers of cute sorority girls ???
27 posted on 09/18/2003 11:13:15 AM PDT by Salgak (don't mind me: the orbital mind control lasers are making me write this. . .)
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To: pbear8
... Because no "straight" frat has that pesky STD problem.

Please.
28 posted on 09/18/2003 11:16:47 AM PDT by Quick1
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To: mlbford2
Keep in mind, that this is at Ivy League U Penn. So this crap doesn't surprise me. That, and Philly is becoming the San Fran of the East. I was there last summer, and they had "Annual Awareness Day" banners up and down the streets near City Hall. Well, guess what. I'm aware that city is being overrun by vermin and pedophiles. That's why I steer clear of that dump.
29 posted on 09/18/2003 11:17:14 AM PDT by Seamus Mc Gillicuddy
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To: steveo

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Tri Lamdas meet with UN Owen-Lamar statement

30 posted on 09/18/2003 11:18:26 AM PDT by finnman69 (!)
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To: mhking
Should I use my jokes about AFA?


31 posted on 09/18/2003 11:20:17 AM PDT by rdb3 (Which is more powerful: The story or the warrior?)
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To: chance33_98
There was a gay fraternity on campus right next to our sorority. Seems like the gay guys all gravitated toward that one house.....their house was beautifully decorated, meals were fabulous, they dressed gorgeously and they threw the best parties....hahaha...
32 posted on 09/18/2003 11:21:00 AM PDT by BossLady (Punch Card Voting Since 1981..........)
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To: Quick1
STD's are no joke. A brother in my pledge class who was gay caught AIDS in the fraternity house with his first anal sex experience.

It's very sad as everyone liked this brother a lot, but he is doing well on his treatments and is relatively healthy considering, and is in a monagamous relationship today.
33 posted on 09/18/2003 11:21:24 AM PDT by finnman69 (!)
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To: rdb3
Should I use my jokes about AFA?

Only if I get to talk about the Zoo Phi Boogers...[g]

34 posted on 09/18/2003 11:29:20 AM PDT by mhking (Don't mess in the affairs of dragons; For you are crunchy, and taste great with ketchup...)
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To: mhking
Eeew! That's the fat girl sorority.


35 posted on 09/18/2003 11:32:06 AM PDT by rdb3 (Which is more powerful: The story or the warrior?)
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To: Howlin; Ed_NYC; MonroeDNA; widgysoft; Springman; Timesink; dubyaismypresident; Grani; coug97; ...
I'd heard about this several years ago - I worked for a company where I was charged with maintaining national corporate websites for several fraternities/sororities (not this one!), and had to research other fraternities and sororities for a massive contact list.

I kind of shrugged it off as more of the usual deal for today's colleges (especially those out in the Granola State).

Just damn.

If you want on the new list, FReepmail me. This IS a high-volume PING list...

36 posted on 09/18/2003 11:34:14 AM PDT by mhking (Don't mess in the affairs of dragons; For you are crunchy, and taste great with ketchup...)
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To: chance33_98
That puts us normals at a disadvantage. Sure, we got lots of beer in the house, but we don't get to shower with the objects of our lust. What is the university going to do to maintain equity?

Of course, the university will get sued after the first dozen or so fairies claim they caught AIDS in a fraternity house that the university should have known (and warned them) was unclean. If you want to see a revival of the "in loco parentis" argument, wait 'til some parents of a tinkerbell blame the university for allowing little Fabian to move into a fraternity house were he caught some ugly stuff as he was used as the house punchboard.

37 posted on 09/18/2003 11:34:18 AM PDT by Tacis
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To: chance33_98
MY ASSA SLAMMA
38 posted on 09/18/2003 11:34:45 AM PDT by over3Owithabrain
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To: rdb3
Eeew! That's the fat girl sorority.

Yup...and you know exactly who I'm talking about, too...

39 posted on 09/18/2003 11:35:17 AM PDT by mhking (Don't mess in the affairs of dragons; For you are crunchy, and taste great with ketchup...)
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To: Lance Romance
Hazing. They will be forced to sleep with a girl, eat a fatty lunch and shop at JC Penny.

Thanks.... now I have to clean the Dr Pepper off my monitor.... LMAO

40 posted on 09/18/2003 11:37:14 AM PDT by bedolido (I can forgive you for killing my sons, but I cannot forgive you for forcing me to kill your sons)
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