Grease up and enjoy it?
Seriously, if we let the pecksniffs make the determination they will make everything but straight sex (no foreplay) in the missionary position in the dark with your clothes on with your legal spouse during a time when conception is likely a sin and preferably a crime.
Face it, most people don't really care. They go to church, or say they do, because they say they believe, but actually, they go because their family always did, or because they are lawyers or doctors or salesmen and want to make business contacts, or want to meet young girls and boys while pretending to teach Sunday School.
If there were more than 10% actual believers in churches today y'all wouldn't have these problems. They would just simply never come up.
SO9
No foreplay!!