[nhoward14]

I hear that. I ain't ready to be anybody's daddy. Uncle I can do, but not Daddy.

[honeygrl]

"I hear that. I ain't ready to be anybody's daddy. Uncle I can do, but not Daddy."

Most men are capable of rising to the occation if they actually want to. Being in the room and hearing their first cry and holding them the first time while they grab your finger with their little bitty hand makes you fall instantly in love. But if you have no desire to be a daddy then without a doubt, wait. I promise you it is one of the most rewarding experiences of life (according to my hubby anyway who waited until he was 31 to start trying to have kids. Lucky for him though I was only 19 at the time and will still have the energy to pick up the slack when he doesn't have it anymore. His health isn't great now that he's 37 so I imagine when the kids are in their teens I'll be picking up a lot of slack. But that's OK. I knew that going into it all.

[Xenalyte]

Aunt and Uncle are GREAT gigs. You get all the fun of spoiling the little one, and added fun when you give her back to Mom and Dad all sugared up at naptime.