[Cogadh na Sith]

I really don't want compassion or healing.... I'm past compassion and healing.

Those are the currency of the Oprahfied therapy nation I'm turning my back on.

[ohioWfan]

If you were my son (you're a bit too old), but if you were my son, I would tell you this....

"Yes. Someone hurt you. Someone hurt you badly. But you're a big boy, and you're responsible for your own behavior now. If you use what was done to you as an excuse for immoral, adolescent behavior, then that's JUST what you are............and immoral adolescent. Don't blame God for this. Act like a man, and behave yourself"

That's how a compassionate Christian mother would talk to an angry, stubborn, obstreperous son like you.

Good thing for you I'm not your mother, huh?? You might have to take responsibility for yourself and your behavior, and I don't think you'd like it much.....

[FoxPro]

Maybe we should get together and cry on each other’s shoulders. We could help each other "heal". And then we could become more emotionally "in touch with our inner being".

On the other hand I have always wanted to have sex with a large black woman. And I did. And you know what, it wasn’t what I thought it was going to be. But I did it. She was only the second person I have ever had sex with. But she helped my self-confidence enormously.