"Yes. Someone hurt you. Someone hurt you badly. But you're a big boy, and you're responsible for your own behavior now. If you use what was done to you as an excuse for immoral, adolescent behavior, then that's JUST what you are............and immoral adolescent. Don't blame God for this. Act like a man, and behave yourself"
That's how a compassionate Christian mother would talk to an angry, stubborn, obstreperous son like you.
Good thing for you I'm not your mother, huh?? You might have to take responsibility for yourself and your behavior, and I don't think you'd like it much.....
I don't blame God for this. I blame man and the wicked world he has created. 'Acting like a man' would get me thrown in jail, my guns taken and my job taken. The law will not let me act like a man and head of my household.
Good thing for you I'm not your mother, huh??
Let me tell you about my mother: she falsely charged my dad with domestic violence when I was 13 and got a restraining order against him--she then shacked up with her divorce lawyer in the house my father built. I didn't want to live with my mom and her lawyer so I was raised by my dad. He died while I was stationed on the DMZ in Korea. They had been married 23 years. I have no other living family.
When I pleaded in tears with my ex not to call the cops on me out of spite like my mom did to my dad, she said cruelly: "Good. I want you die alone like your rotten father did." As God witnesses me writing this--on my life this is true.
My wife also got all into tarot cards and crystals and all the new age crap after she quit going to church. I suggested to her brother that an exorcism was in order rather a divorce--her brother agreed...
It boggles my mind that she will now be rewarded with half of all I have worked for for the past 6 years for this. I did manage to keep my father's house I live in alone--and will probably eventually die in alone.