[BlazingArizona]

People that fall into the sack to see if they "fit" often substitute that for a relationship where they really have to talk about things and ideas and see if they will be friends AFTER they are married a couple of years

You're talking about a diffferent problem: couples who find that the sexual part of their relationship is so good that they don't care if anything else everr develops. I'm more concerned with situations in which the couple wants every important aspect of the relationship to work right. Finding out that your husband is an "ice king" when you're not is not something you want to have happen after the marriage takes place.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

What if you do marry, and are sexually compatible... later something terrible happens, and one of you loses the ability to have sexual intercourse. Is this reason enough to leave the marriage? Is sex a large part of marriage, or a meaningful part?

[RnMomof7]

You're talking about a diffferent problem: couples who find that the sexual part of their relationship is so good that they don't care if anything else everr develops. I'm more concerned with situations in which the couple wants every important aspect of the relationship to work right. Finding out that your husband is an "ice king" when you're not is not something you want to have happen after the marriage takes place.

No I am talking about couples that have hormone driven relationships and are so busy with sex that they do not notice that they end up in bed most of the time .

Are you REALLY worried about the HUSBAND ..how about a little truth in this conversation.

What if the woman were absolutely prefect, bright ,attractive , loving, understanding, and attentive BUT was not a great roll? Do you turn that one in?

[Buggman]

Finding out that your husband is an "ice king" when you're not is not something you want to have happen after the marriage takes place.

If you're truly committed to each other, you'll find a way to handle it. Frankly, of all the couples I've met who waited until marriage, I've never known any to break up over sex.