[RnMomof7]

You're talking about a diffferent problem: couples who find that the sexual part of their relationship is so good that they don't care if anything else everr develops. I'm more concerned with situations in which the couple wants every important aspect of the relationship to work right. Finding out that your husband is an "ice king" when you're not is not something you want to have happen after the marriage takes place.

No I am talking about couples that have hormone driven relationships and are so busy with sex that they do not notice that they end up in bed most of the time .

Are you REALLY worried about the HUSBAND ..how about a little truth in this conversation.

What if the woman were absolutely prefect, bright ,attractive , loving, understanding, and attentive BUT was not a great roll? Do you turn that one in?

[BlazingArizona]

No I am talking about couples that have hormone driven relationships and are so busy with sex that they do not notice that they end up in bed most of the time .

Which is precisely the way some couples prefer things...

What if the woman were absolutely prefect, bright attractive , loving, understanding, and attentive BUT was not a great roll? Do you turn that one in?

Exactly why the two of you need to agree on that before making a permanent commitment. Otherwise, you run the risk of becoming another divorce statistic.