'you're fat';
'your nose looks like a pig's nose';
'your feet are too big';
'my Mom's prettier than your Mom';
'my father's richer than your's'.
We declare victory when our enemy develops an eating disorder.
Soccer Moms turn into Hockey Moms
My daughter has some problems as she is mildly autistic. It does not handicap her much, but some concepts are hard for her, and she struggles in school.
Mostly her problems are social, and there are HUGE parts of society that she just doesn't "get" and she can't interact with. Given today's society and the propaganda that exists, I have come to regard her "handicap" as a blessing. She remains innocent, sweet, kind, and as I say, the joy of my life.
9/11 had a HUGE impact on all of us here at the house, and while she misses some things, my daughter was quick to pick up the implications of what was going on.
It literally hurts my soul to think that there are people out there who would beat her, rape her, sell her into slavery, make her wear a bag over her head, stifle her laughter, her singing , her dancing, all because she is female, and worse yet, an Infidel.
As a result, I am VERY MUCH FOR this war on Islamofascism
Furthermore, I think any decent mother who knows what the enemy is like and what teh facts are would be!
We talk about the war a lot, my daughter and I .
For a time after 9/11, she was having nightmares and was worried that osama himself would come for her. That first week I was literally having to do a sweep of her room for a time to be sure that terrorists weren't hiding in the closet before she would go to sleep.
I have made sure that she knows that her Daddy and Uncles will protect us, and that her Mom is a fair shot and that we will never let her fall to that.
The nightmares have long since stopped
We continue to talk, about the war in Iraq, about Saddam, about the troops, ( strong Army ties here!) and President Bush. ( I download pics of him and the troops for her and she would love to meet Mr. Bush someday!) We talk about Good and Evil and why people do what they do.
We have begun talking about other wars, other times and places, and other "Bad Guys" like Hitler.
My daughter misses some things, but she gets what this war is about, can tell Evil when she sees it, and is proud to be an American. She knows what side she is on and why.
I am for this war, primarily because I AM a woman and a mother.
Tia