Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

Parsis (Zoroastrians) split over marriage rule
BBC ^ | 4/21/03 | BBC

Posted on 04/23/2003 8:00:10 PM PDT by freedom44

They have decreed that any Parsi man marrying outside the community will cease to be recognised as one of its members.

Originally from Iran, the Parsis practice Zorastrianism.

There are only 130,000 Parsis left around the world, of whom about 55,000 reside in India's financial capital, Bombay, or Mumbai.

New rule

Parsi women have for years been threatened with excommunication if they marry outside the community but now this rule has been extended to men.

Their families, too, will not be initiated into the community if they marry out of it.

The only good thing about this resolution is that the high priests can no longer be accused of being sexist!

Bergis Desai is a Parsi lawyer in Bombay.

He wife is a Sindhi and Mr Desai will therefore no longer be recognised as a Parsi.

His children will not be initiated into the community - nor will they be allowed into the fire temple, the Parsis' place of worship.

He says the resolution is without any legal, moral or ecclesiastical validity.

"I also happen to be a fully ordained priest myself and have performed the Navjot - our religious ceremony that marks the initiation of a child into the community - of a lot of children of inter-married Zoroastrians," he says.

"I will continue to do so even after the resolution and nothing can be done about it. The only good thing about this resolution is that the high priests can no longer be accused of being sexist!"

Divided community

The Parsi community is one of India's more progressive minorities.

Some of the country's top business families - like the Tatas, Godrejs and the Wadias - are Parsis, as is renowned orchestra conductor Zubin Mehta.

Rock band Queen's famous lead singer, the late Freddie Mercury, was also a Parsi.

The clergy wants to preserve the community

However, the Parsis are a very closed society and conservative in their religious beliefs.

This paradox has often led to conflicts within the tiny community.

Conservative Parsis says inter-marriages should have been stopped a long time ago to preserve their numbers.

On the other hand, liberal Parsis say if the clergy continues to turn away those who are already a part of the community, as well as refusing to accept new people into the fold, there won't be a community to speak of in the long run, let alone one to preserve.

Feroz Kotwal is the Parsi high priest of Bombay and one of the seven leaders that passed the new resolution.

He says inter-marriage is not the remedy for increasing community numbers.

"As a Parsi high priest, my first duty is to preserve the community and the religion.

"We look to Parsis who uphold Zoroastrian virtues, values and principles. If we throw open our doors through inter-marriage to all communities, all our traditions, identity, characteristics, everything will go to the winds," he says.

'Dying race'

Surprisingly, the young generation is as divided on the issue.

What's the point in telling people to stop indulging in inter-caste marriages when, in some cases, that's the only option they have?

Jehangir Patel Urvaksh Mobedji, 21, says Parsis have a responsibility towards preserving the community and should therefore marry within it.

Freisha works as a producer in a local radio station and is dating a boy born of a Parsi father and non-Parsi mother.

She says this resolution is very unfair because she is being asked to choose between her religion and her boyfriend.

"I think it's sad that my religion tells me if I want to be truthful to my faith then I must marry a Parsi boy.

"As it is we are a dying race and the community, instead of accepting both of us into the fold as Parsis, is turning us away - that's another two Parsis less in number."

Jehangir Patel is the editor of Parsiana magazine, a monthly publication on the international Zoroastrian community.

He says this resolution is an unnecessary, retrograde step that has opened old wounds.

The Parsis are one of Bombay's oldest communities (Picture: Parsiana magazine) Many Parsis will continue to marry outside the community not out of a sense of rebellion but due to a shortage of eligible partners, he says.

"We have a small community and it's getting smaller in number. In Bombay itself every third Parsi is marrying outside the community.

"The number is bound to be higher in other parts of India and the world where there aren't enough Parsis. So what's the point in telling people to stop indulging in inter-caste marriages when, in some cases, that's the only option they have?"

Most Parsis think this resolution will not stop people wanting to marry outside the community from doing so.

However, it has raised important questions regarding the identity of a Parsi and the continuity of the dwindling Zoroastrian race, for which the community has no answers.


TOPICS: Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: faithandphilosophy; india; kurdistan; parsi; zorastrianism; zoroastrianism; zoroastrians
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-2021-25 last
To: freedom44
Mathematical problem: If all full-blooded Parsis marry and have an average of b children, what is the maximum fraction of the population that can intermarry if the full-blooded population is to be maintained.

Answer: (1 - 2/b)

This doesn't take into account problems due to the current demographic distribution.

21 posted on 04/23/2003 10:05:48 PM PDT by wideminded
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: HuntsvilleTxVeteran; freedom44
What you saw in India might have been a "sky burial" by the Tibetan strand of Buddhism - they also dispose of their dead by this organic method. They put the bodies on high towers, and (unlike the Parsis) dismember them. For them, this is a holy rite. It has become controversial in recent times, and tourist who come to gape are not appreciated. There was an article on Tibetan sky burial in the (now, alas, defunk) journal Udolopho. Ingrid Hicks, "Tibetan Sky Burial" Udolopho, Summer 1996, p 31.
22 posted on 04/24/2003 2:50:38 AM PDT by BlackVeil
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: freedom44
That's how it is done folks:

The only good thing about this resolution is that the high priests can no longer be accused of being sexist!

I found this wording to be worthy of Communist Soviet propaganda. I could not believe, in fact, how blatant this value judgement was --- even sarcastic.

So, I went to the original, and indeed, that sentence has been removed.

NO, the wroter will not be sacked: (s)he will be told to be more caerful.

And this is Britain, the country that has preserved for us the idea of tre representative government. The country that wrestled from the monarch The Magna Carta has sold out to socialism to the point that it is not even recongnized when BBC promulgates it.

23 posted on 04/24/2003 4:39:06 AM PDT by TopQuark
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: freedom44
they don't accept converts to the religion

Is it not true of the Hindus also?

24 posted on 04/24/2003 4:44:07 AM PDT by TopQuark
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: freedom44
interesting, no?
25 posted on 04/24/2003 8:25:41 AM PDT by Lloyd227 (Just interesting trivia. No particular message in my posting it.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 20 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-2021-25 last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson