I sure hope you didn't mean to talk about your wife that way.
The world needs men who respect women as life's partners, not as toys or trophies. This goes for mothers, daughters, and wives.
Shalom.
How's that? If my daughter is married, I most certainly do want "some man" (her husband) to do to my daughter what I did to my wife to make the daughter in the first place. Sexual intercourse between man and wife isn't just a moral act -- it's holy, a sacrament, a way of worshipping God. Any parent who doesn't want his married children to have sex with their spouses has a problem.
Nobody wants to think about their parents or their kids having sex. The punchline of life is that we're all the result of somebody's good time.
Not at all. Sex isn't about having a good time. Sex is an act of love, an act of worship. The "good time" is just the frosting on the cake.
The idea that sex is just somebody's "good time" is the root of the problem our society has with sex today. Saying that sex is just another way to experience pleasure is like saying that eating is just a way to experience delicious flavors. Just as the primary purposes of eating are health and nutrition, the primary purposes of sex are love and reproduction. Separating the sexual act from its natural context of love and reproduction makes as much sense as separating the act of eating from its natural context of health and nutrition -- both represent a perversion of the natural order of things.
Modern attitudes toward sexual behavior can be compared to the vomitoria of ancient Rome, where the jaded wealthy of the city gorged themselves on delicacies for the sheer sensual pleasure of eating, then forced themselves to vomit it all up so they could keep on gorging. This is obviously not a healthy way to engage in eating -- or in sexual intercourse.
I'm not sure what you did to your wife and I'm pretty sure I really don't want to know, but I am sure I would love nothing better than for my daughters to one day find a "nice" young man, to fall in love, wed, and eventually bless me with many grandchildren.