Never understood that, Louie, except their behavior is just like a child, reflecting what they receive from the parent/owner.
If treated gently with lavished love - enforce the No Counter Rules - they act accordingly.
Never had a problem with that, even with adopted strays.
Show them harshness and contempt - that will be reflected.
Give 'em love and appreciation - receive it in full measure...:))
Exactly right, Xie. : )