You obviously don't know where to look.......try church...... you might change your mind
LOL... yeah, I see a lot of "righteous" people at church... They sit through the sermon, say "amen" at the right time... And then give each other the finger as they all try to leave the parking lot...
My personal observations are that being a good Christian means living it... And that organized religion rarely matters... Ironically enough, my ex-wife (a devout Catholic) told me I'm the "most Christian" man she ever met... Which I found particularly striking, since I'm not a regular at church... :-\
And, FWIW, we split amicably (at least, on as pleasant of terms as possible), and I let her have everything she wanted... Loved her to death, but she was killing me day by day, a little piece at a time... A lack of maturity that was... intolerable.
No more, I say...
Be well...