[John Lenin]

I think you put too much into the wealth and beauty factor. Most men just want someone that respects them and is not in some kind of competition with them.

[sonserae]

Your very statement proves the article true. Why would you say that a woman who is accomplished is "in competition with you"?

I just read the book "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge. It's excellent. He talks about this very subject. Men not knowing how to be men anymore....they either are violent or passive but nothing inbetween.

Women want to be pursued but the men are too passive to do that now. Men still want to be the hero but they lack the guts to do it anymore.

Ask any man and one of his favorite movies is "Braveheart"....and let me tell you....every woman dreams of a guy with kahonas like that.....