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I must be missing something. Didn't she say, "I need to be going" or something to that effect? I don't think she ever said "stop" or something definitive like that.

It has now been legislated that men are supposed to be able to read women's minds.

LOL!!! Men are not terribly good at reading a woman's mind. And mind you if she is ambiguous in her answer, the poor guy can't figure out what she wants. He's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't. Its not fun having a relationship or even going to have sex for the first time if a lawyer has to invited in bed before the congressing couple begin to make sure all the i's and t's are dotted. Sure, a woman has every right to change her mind after sex begins but men hate being manipulated into giving up a good thing. If a woman wants to be a relationship killjoy, she can be one by the simple expedient of interrupting sex once its under way and leaving the guy in the dust, if she doesn't decide to go to the police afterwards. We used to pretty sure before the California Supreme Court's decision as to what constituted rape and now they've moved the goalposts. Message to men: go ahead and have sex at your own risk.