[Born in a Rage]

Yes, I did. The point is that a person doesn't have to exactly say "I've changed my mind" in order for another person to know that they changed their mind. You know that and you know I was answering your question, just like this boy knew the girl was telling him to stop.

[A.J.Armitage]

No, you didn't, and you still haven't. What you said went way past the one particular case. I asked an obvious, reasonable question. If you're going to be announcing sweeping principles, be ready to defend them.

You know that and you know I was answering your question

I know you didn't answer the question, and so do you.

[Dianna]

Yes, I did. The point is that a person doesn't have to exactly say "I've changed my mind" in order for another person to know that they changed their mind. You know that and you know I was answering your question, just like this boy knew the girl was telling him to stop.

So, not only do men have to be able to determine whether no means "persuade me", but they have to rely upon our body language as well? So, if I SAY no, but rub my naked body all over him, should I feel raped if he goes ahead?

Going ahead would be wrong, but it would also be eminently understandable.